A wonderful day at the Lexi

We are so grateful to Cordelia and all in the NWL Breastfeeding Group who put on such a fantastic event today at the beautiful Lexi Cinema in Kensal Rise.

The venue was almost sold out with old friends and new, in addition to whatever the collective noun for a plethora of lovely babies is (answers below to that one please!).

The stunning film and gentle soundtrack seemed to lull the babies to sleep, and it was the women shedding tears throughout rather than the babies.

Together, everyone raised almost £600 today! This will make a massive difference, and we are hoping to talk with the film-maker, Noemi Weis, so that we can organise our own screening of the film later this year in Hertfordshire. Watch this space!

Natalie and Silke after the film, still a bit red-eyed…

One girl takes fundraising to new heights

At the end of 2016, Gillian and I had a very special afternoon when we were invited to a gymnastics display organised by Ruby Robinson, a member of the Richmond Gymnastics Association.

We were not quite sure what to expect, but the hour that followed went beyond our wildest dreams! Gymnast after gymnast came tumbling out, sometimes with as many as 20 on the mat at one time, performing balletic pieces to dramatic music with incredible tumbles and throws. I have to confess I watched one small boy being repeatedly thrown 20 feet in the air through my fingers, but am glad to say he was caught just in time every time, with a massive smile on his face!

The gymnasts included the RGA display team, the current national champions in acrobatics and tumbling, several GB squad competitors and the trio who represented Great Britain at the Olympic Gala in Rio (pictured).

Britain’s acrobatic group Jennifer Bailey, Katrina Fearon and Roxanna Parker perform during the gymnastics exhibition gala at the 2016 Olympics in Rio, 2016. (AP Photo/Dmitri Lovetsky)

But the real star of the show was Ruby. Her mother told us, “She started doing gymnastics when she was five and has gone on to compete regionally and nationally with the acrobatic gymnastics squad. When her aunt Naomi told her about Hearts Milk Bank and what they do, she decided this was the cause she wanted to take on.”

Ruby herself said, “It was fun because I really liked balancing on someone’s shoulders,” she said. “I made a speech to everyone about the Hearts Milk Bank and RGA. My friends were there and they liked it and I feel happy that I can help children and babies.”

The RGA is a charity itself, with an extensive programme for gymnasts with special needs or disabilities, in stand-alone classes or integrated into the main programme. The RGA has a number of Regional and National Disability Acrobatic Champions, alongside medallists from the London Disability Floor and Vault Championships.

Ruby’s fundraising continued after the display, with family and friends raising a grand total of almost £1500 for the Hearts Milk Bank. This fantastic amount will be massively useful as we start setting things up, and we will be making sure every penny is spent to get us off to the best start possible.


Thank you!

Our Indiegogo crowdfunder closed yesterday morning, having raised the fantastic total of over £14,500 to go towards our equipment costs! Within half an hour of it closing, we received four emails from people who had missed the deadline but wanted to donate – therefore, we have added a PayPal donate button to our homepage. If you missed donating but would really like to and prefer not to use PayPal, please get in touch by info@heartsmilkbank.org and we will send you our bank details.

This was a huge team effort, and Gillian and I not only thank every one of the 227 people who contributed financially, but the huge numbers of people who helped to make it happen.

The film was shot over a weekend at the home of Silke and Frank Durm, who both gave their time and a huge amount of effort to hire the equipment the weekend before, and provide such a warm welcome and hospitality to the milk bank team who moved in for 48 hours! This simply could not have happened without them.

The film itself was directed by the wonderful Meg Thompson, a renowned film producer who guided the rather nervous novice group of milk bankers and parents, and showed no fear of working with the large number of children who took part! And the beautiful quality of the film is completely due to a pair of very talented videographers, Kotryna Sniukaite and Jason Chua, who gave up not only their weekend, but many many hours thereafter to cut the six hours of interviews down to the final four minutes.

And then the music. The beautiful track Angel was sung by Claire Tchaikowski and arranged by the awe-inspiring Neil Davidge (Massive Attack was the soundtrack to my medical school days…!). It isn’t every day that two such talented people pop out of the woodwork and offer to help for free, but given the number of times it has happened over the last nine months, we now just accept the universe is trying its best to help.

Finally, we were supported day by day throughout the campaign by Naomi and Silke who divided up sending thank yous to everyone who donated, and by the army of Tweeters and Facebookers who shared our posts, especially Simon at Facebook who went above and beyond to ensure that we reached as far and wide as possible! Facebook loves breastfeeding – who knew?!

The campaign had its ups and downs, and looking back over the last two months we have learned so much from our early mistakes. Throughout, we weathered family crises, looking after poorly kids and keeping life going while knowing another Tweet could help bring more vital funds in, if I could just get the message across in 140 characters. I’ve gained a heap more grey hairs but an unshakable conviction that this milk bank will work, and a bright 2017 is ahead!

So on behalf of this wonderful team, thank you to everyone who helped, baked cookies, ate cookies, and put in your hard earned money!

Milk and cookie parties – the start of a tradition!

It’s World Prematurity Day! To mark the day and celebrate all families affected when children are born too soon, a series of Milkshake and Cookies have been going on today across the country. There has been a lot of laughter, hugs, tears and much needed fundraising going on – here is Gillian at an event in south London today!


To mark the day, we have also launched a 2 minute appeal for the Hearts Milk Bank ( https://app.crowdcaster.com/media/sYvzfzfNzDjpjAn7S) that will lead onto a series of podcasts that cover the range of our work in collaboration with  crowdcaster.com – a new and exciting social enterprise that aims to give people a voice online. Please listen and share as widely as possible, and listen out for more coming soon.

Best wishes to all, and thank you for your ongoing support,

Natalie and Gillian

The WISE Awards 2016

We are so elated to be helping to fly the flag for women in science at the WISE Awards tonight. Dr Natalie Shenker was nominated for the Hero Award by the Althea-Imperial Programme at Imperial College and is now down to the last three – slightly overwhelmed to be up against the Vice Chancellor of Swansea University and the Director of the Magnox Programme at Sellafield.

The WISE Campaign was founded to encourage more women and girls to consider and pursue STEM subjects. The traditional male dominance of science has begun to be challenged, but a recent study has shown the UK lacks 50,000 female scientists across all fields of study. This is critical for society -unconscious gender biases while carrying out research can skew results, lead to incorrect or incomplete conclusions, and even endanger women – in a classic case, the engineers who originally developed airbag technology in cars failed to take breasts into account, leading to a number of deaths. Simply put, gender balanced teams in general lead to more productive research.

Being shortlised is recognition not only for Natalie’s work to establish the milk bank and raise the profile of donor milk, but also for her work in developing a research programme across the country for studies into breast milk and maternal health, especially breast cancer risk. Tonight she will be meeting Princess Anne and a host of dignatories to represent milk banking, the scores of people who have invested time in he mission to establish the Hearts Milk Bank, and all women who juggle children, families and pretty difficult careers in science and medicine.

Yes Natalie, you can put your new shoes on now – good luck!

We are making the news!

This week has seen the Hearts Milk Bank featured in the Evening Standard, JC, Herts Advertiser and Link West’s blog today. On Thursday we are off to record a radio programme and the word is spreading daily – our heads are spinning slightly but it has not diverted us from the key job of getting the milk bank up and running by the end of the year.

This week has seen three more hospitals sign up, a decision made on our premises (watch this space!), and more hospital meetings later this week. Tomorrow night, Natalie will be talking with regional health leaders at the Cambridge Business School, and on Thursday Gillian and Natalie will be presenting at the Startup Showcase at Tobacco Dock in east London. Gillian will then be ‘pitching’ to 300 investors in only one minute!

On Friday, we are off to UNICEF’s Baby Friendly Initiative Conference in Birmingham, and are rather excited by the first showing of the Breastfeeding Advert – an example of what one woman, Claire Czajkowska, can do with 2 years and a team of scores of people who want to make a difference to the perception of breastfeeding. The main launch is on January 21st, and Natalie will be speaking about her role in providing some of the science advice for the project. The event is sold out, but watch out for updates on Twitter (@Milk4TinyHumans) and Facebook.

Please keep sharing our fundraising link – we have an amazing total already and can do so much good with every £. Thank you!

World Breastfeeding Week

Monday, August 01, 2016

To mark World Breastfeeding Week, we wanted to highlight that one of our core aims is to support parents with breastfeeding, by providing advice when things are difficult, acting as a centre for education, working with local breastfeeding support services, and enabling sick babies to access safe donor milk when their own mothers are unable to breastfeed themselves.

The UK has some of the lowest rates of breastfeeding in the world, as highlighted by the Lancet series published in January 2016.  Continue reading “World Breastfeeding Week”